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Jerry Varghese
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Jul 01, 2025

A Beginner’s Guide to Meditation: Finding Stillness in 5 Simple Steps

Meditation is more than just a practice—it’s a journey of returning to yourself, a gentle yet powerful way to reconnect with your inner peace, no matter where you are on your path. At Nihshreyasa, we believe that meditation is less about achieving perfection and more about cultivating presence in the moment. If you're new to meditation, this simple, practical guide will help you take your first steps into stillness and mindfulness today.

1. Find Your Space - The environment in which you meditate can greatly influence your experience. Choose a quiet, peaceful corner of your home where you feel comfortable and at ease. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just a space that invites calm. Perhaps it’s a cushion by a window, a cozy chair, or a spot on the floor that feels grounding. Dim the lights or light a candle to create a soft ambiance, allowing your surroundings to support your focus. This space is yours—a retreat where you can pause, breathe, and be.

2. Settle Your Body - Your body is the vessel through which you experience stillness, so it’s important to find a comfortable, relaxed position. You can sit cross-legged on the floor, on a chair, or even lie down if that feels better for you. Rest your hands gently on your lap or knees, with your palms facing upward or downward, whichever feels more natural. Allow your shoulders to soften, and lengthen your spine, keeping it naturally aligned without strain. Comfort is key—when your body is relaxed, your mind has a better chance to settle too. There’s no rush or specific way to sit—find what works best for you.

3. Breathe with Intention - Now, close your eyes and take a deep breath. Breathe in through your nose, filling your belly with air, and then exhale gently, releasing any tension or stress from the day. Repeat this deep, intentional breath a few more times—each inhale bringing in calm and each exhale letting go of any distractions. Once you’ve settled into a slow, steady rhythm, allow your breath to flow naturally, without trying to control it. Simply notice it—feel the cool air entering your nostrils, the rise and fall of your chest or belly. As you tune into the sensation of breathing, you’ll begin to cultivate a sense of presence in the moment.

 

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4. Anchor Your Mind - Our minds are naturally busy, and it's normal for thoughts to arise. The key is not to try to stop them but to gently guide your attention back when your mind wanders. To do this, choose an anchor—a focal point to return to when distractions arise. This could be the rhythm of your breath, a calming word like “peace” or “stillness,” the sensation of your body on the floor, or even the flicker of a candle if your eyes remain open. When thoughts drift in (and they will!), simply acknowledge them without judgment. Gently let them pass, and return your focus to your anchor. With each return, you're strengthening your ability to stay present.

5. Start Small, Be Kind - Meditation doesn’t need to be a long, intense practice at the start. Begin with just five minutes. Set a timer if it helps, so you’re not concerned with checking the clock. What matters most is the quality of your presence during that time, not the length of the session. If your mind wanders a dozen times, that’s perfectly fine—it’s part of the process. Every time you bring your attention back, you’re practicing mindfulness and stillness. Each return is a small victory, a reminder that you are here, right now, in this moment.

A Little Tip: For consistency, try to meditate at the same time each day. Whether in the morning to awaken your senses or in the evening to unwind, establishing a routine will help build a habit. Over time, as you return to your practice, stillness will begin to feel more natural, like a familiar space where you can always return. The key is to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you cultivate this new practice.

This practice is yours to shape. Whether you are seeking moments of stillness to ground yourself or exploring meditation to bring deeper peace into your life, the journey is entirely yours. At Nihshreyasa, we’re here to support you at every step—whether through a personalized session or simply a shared moment of breath. Meditation isn’t about perfection; it’s about connection. Step into your stillness; it’s waiting for you, always.